Welcome to the April Carnival of Natural Parenting: Parenting advice!
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month we're writing letters to ask our readers for help with a current parenting issue. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
(lovely reader that's you for today! so, dear you,)
Here's the sitch... since I last shared with you this hilarious video of Jude eating some banana I have given him... no food. I need your motherly guidance and experiences!
I still want to do baby-led weaning, which to me, means skipping the whole pureed foods stage. Check. Got that. And everything I keep reading says, "Delay solids as long as possible! Delay Delay!" and I believe them, and we've held off. The benefits in some of the studies I've read seem quite real, real enough to overcome the societal pressure to cram some nasty sawdust wheat paste into the kid.
But, we're now in month seven (SEVEN!!). The pressure is on. I'm worried if we don't start foods soon he'll end up like a friend of a friend's kid who is 2+ and has developed some crazy aversion to eating solid foods at all and has to have everything pureed for him.
Jude is VERY interested in watching us eat and has thoroughly enjoyed the few pieces of bread we've let him gnaw on, I'm just not sure what the next step is. He'll suck on foods and seems like he's practicing the whole swallowing thing. So that's good, right?
Is it time? I think maybe it's time?
Are we doing this right? Rightish? Is there even a right way to do it?
What have your experiences been with introducing your babies to finger-food type solids?
Anything to expect or avoid?
Can I assume that if he's not choking then everything is peachy keen?
Still Foodless in Ohio
(Feel free to weigh in on any or all of these questions, darlings. Just looking for some general babies vs solid food tips.)
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Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
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